Best Online Dating Tips in 2019
With the advent of technology, online dating has become more accessible. More people are becoming optimistic and join such website to find their other half. However, competition is becoming tighter because everyone will be given more choices to choose from. So, embrace this 5 tips to be successful in online dating and fill your life with love this 2019.
1. Consider online dating as your job.
According to analysts, there is a high chance to find a compatible partner if you spend almost three hours a week on the dating site. Treat it like its’ your job to find time despite your busy schedule. As they say, hard work pays off. You can’t just find a compatible partner if you are less frequent to be seen on the active users' list.
2. Take time in making your profile stylish.
Three-fourths of your profile should be about you, your hobbies, things you love to do in your spare time and what are your values in life; while one-fourth of your profile is about the attributes you are looking for a partner. Be specific in listing down; make sure you’re not lying just to get a positive impression. Put in your mind that the goal is not to attract everyone, but to find the one. Then, sum up your profile by writing your impression and attitude in life. This will surely give your partner a good vision of yourself.
3. Upload photos of your best angle.
“Selfie” is a trend but it won’t help your chances in attracting the one if your angle isn’t the best. Make sure to upload a headshot as your profile picture, but your profile must include a body shot to make them aware of your true appearance/shape. This can avoid first-date surprises and turns them off. Upload photos but don’t be too vain.
4. Take charge and make a move but be passive.
On the online dating world, your profile will be put in the most visible profile list if you’re active, and has frequent activities like liking and commenting on the people you like. Also, you can send some personal messages if you really find the person appealing. Some people will surely reply and sooner you’ll exchange messages. However, how can this convert to a personal date? If he/she asks you a personal question, you can be passive and say “This story is better told over a drink”. He/she will be intrigued and for sure asks you out on a date. Sometimes, not giving too much info can be beneficial.
5. Don’t rush it.
If you finally found a person to take you out on a date, then always think not to do many things on the first date. Always think to reserve other exciting things on the next date so that your partner will have something to look forward to. Make sure your first date will only take a few hours; that’s enough to leave an impression that a second date should happen to know you more. Be mysterious by not taking away too much. To be involved in a serious relationship takes time to know each other better; so, don’t rush it.
At these times where ghosting is a trend and the competition is tighter, embrace these 5 online dating tips to make your chances high in finding the right one.